It could rightly be called the most popular verse in all of the Bible. Certainly the one which appears quoted the most often, even by believers and unbelievers alike. Those who have never read much of the Bible at all know it well and will throw it out whenever someone may call their lifestyle or decisions into question or say what they are doing is a sin. They are very quick to point out what the Bible says in this one verse. However, the verse does not mean anything close to how it is used in such situations. The verse I’m referring to is not John 3:16 as you might first have been thinking. It is Matthew 7:1 which says, “Do not judge, so that you will not be judged.” How many times have we heard someone say when we point out something they are doing is wrong or sinful that Jesus says not to judge and that is judging them? Often times it is treated as a “get out of accountability free card” or as what Mark Dever has referred to as a “shield for sin”. The philosopher Leo Tolstoy even claimed that it indicated that we shouldn’t have any court system at all! This clearly is another one of those “Inigo Montoya passages.” “You keep quoting that verse. I do not think it means what you think it means.”
When we come to this verse, we have to realize that Jesus is in no way prohibiting the passing of judgment in general. That can’t be the case. In just a few verses, He will tell His disciples, “Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces” (v. 6). Basically, don’t give deep spiritual biblical truths and teaching to those who want nothing to do with it and will not benefit from it. Such will be a waste and not appreciated. For us to obey this, don’t we have to make a judgment call as to who would be considered a “dog” or “swine” not to spend our time giving the holy things to? Jesus also goes on to warn of false prophets and how they can be known to be such by their fruits. To conclude that someone is a false prophet or teacher requires judgment. Jesus even commands for His followers to “judge with righteous judgment” in John 7:24! Paul later says that we ARE to judge those within the church but not those outside who still belong to the world (1 Corinthians 5:12-13). In fact, in that passage, he is chastising the church in Corinth for their failure to judge the immoral man in their midst who is sleeping with his stepmother. Jesus cannot mean by this statement that we should never call another believer out for his or her sin because He lays out an entire process for how we are to do so in Matthew 18:15-20. Lovingly calling out someone else’s sin and their need to repent cannot be the type of judgment Jesus refers to here. He would not later tell us how to do so if He first said that we are not supposed to do so at all. And if you read the Matthew 7 passage carefully, not just stopping at verse 1, you can see that Jesus does not say that we are not to do anything about the speck of sawdust in our brother’s eye. Only that we must take care of the unmistakable much greater log or plank of wood in our own. THEN, and only then, we are in a position to address our brother’s speck. That’s the whole point of v. 5, “first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”
So, what kind of judgment is Jesus speaking of here then when He calls us not to judge? A self-righteous hypocritical type of judging. Having an “I’m holier than thou” attitude in confronting sin, thinking that we are better or less sinful than someone else because we may not be guilty of the exact same type of sin as them in the moment. It is rightly confronting someone else in their sin but wrongly failing to do anything about similar sin in your own life. Treating their sin as greater than your own. For instance, the case of a believer approaching another professing believer about him cheating on his wife and rightly calling for him to repent but then turning around to go home to look at pornography on his phone where he needs to repent and leave such sin behind himself. He is ignoring the huge wooden plank of sin in his own eye while addressing the speck in his brother’s. In fact, the reason his viewing habits would even be considered a plank in comparison with his brother’s infidelity as a speck is due to him refusing to deal with it when he is much closer to it. It is not that the man’s unfaithfulness to his spouse shouldn’t be confronted. Love for that man and his wife should move us to do so as Scripture commands (Matthew 18:15; Galatians 6:1). But nothing should be said to the man about it until the person is sure to clean up their own house at home so to speak first. This will insure that he will not be guilty of the self-righteous hypocritical judging Jesus condemns in this verse.
A prime example of the kind of judging Jesus tells us not to do here is found with the Pharisees. They were notorious for their self-righteous hypocrisy. Judging and looking down on others for not holding to the standards that they had set (and in many cases added to the ones God had set in His holy law) all the while not abiding by those standards themselves. Jesus presents the very picture of this in His parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector who both go up to the temple to pray (Luke 18:9-14). The Pharisee was preoccupied with how much more righteous he thought himself to be because he was not like those “sinners” out there such as that tax collector (vv. 11-12) not recognizing that he was just as much of a sinner in need of God’s mercy. He was very busy pointing out the speck in the tax collector’s eyes while ignoring the huge plank in his own obvious for everyone else to see. This very well could be another case where Jesus is directly addressing the Pharisees in His sermon both to confront their hypocrisy and warn His followers not to follow suit.
This verse is a call to proper judgment. Not no judging of anyone at all but a right judging of them. The warning here is to be sure that we are appropriately judging others. That’s what Jesus means when He says that the manner of judgment we use against others is that which we ourselves will receive (v. 2). Not that we will face judgment if we judge anyone else about anything but that we will face the same kind of judgment we give them. We will be held to the same standard we are holding them to left without an excuse for what we are doing because of our condemnation of them for doing the same thing. Therefore, we should be sure to be fair and accurate in the judgments we make and have the right attitude in repentance over our own sins so that we don’t befall the same ourselves. Like Haman winding up being hung on his own gallows he had prepared for Mordecai (Esther 6:9-10) and Adoni-bezek having his own thumbs and big toes cut off after doing the same for the seventy kings he had captured (Judges 1:6-7), the one practicing this unrighteous judging can expect to get it returned to them. Adoni-bezek even stated afterwards, “as I have done, so God has repaid me” (v. 7).
Let’s not misunderstand Jesus here. We absolutely are to judge. But that judgment should not be a self-righteous hypocritical judgment where we fail to deal with the sin in our own lives and only point out the sins in other’s lives as a way of elevating ourselves above them. Rather, when we first notice a concerning sin being practiced by a brother or sister that they need to repent of, we need to humbly first examine ourselves of any similar sins we have yet to deal with, recognizing that we are no better than they are but are in need of the same grace and accountability. Only then are we ready to judge as Jesus calls us to in this verse.
Love in Christ,
Pastor Lee